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What to do before so much Conflict with my father?

The problem that I am concerned about too much lately is that my family and I live in a heavily contaminated environment and harmful... Because I don't see the output. We are a family of my parents and three daughters, I am the oldest. Since I can remember my mother has been the one who contributes more economically, and has brought forward in all aspects in addition to monetary, emotional, moral, etc, My father works, but do not earn enough to solve. He never sought to be overcome for their family. When girls my sisters and us since neither we were aware of the situation, we limitabamos to know that my dad took us to school, he walked and did things at home that make the dads, but now with the passage of the years, come to mind vague memories of prompted was late home, of the discussions with mom, who in the travel she was in charge of the costs, miss important dates, etc Still and that is what we want and never have claimed anything... Only a couple of years ago was unresponsive. It tells us that we want it, but believes that with a hug proves it. Since we are all older and when we have problems at work, with neighbours or with couples you pass, turn up the volume of the tv or telling us that "you can do". Have never had a good relationship with whoever we want, whether they be our boyfriend, classmates or friends. The is involves or cohabit and notes (without belittling) people who believe that can be superior to them (vendors, porters, clean cars). The day that he met the parents of my boyfriend, who are successful lawyers, he remained giving back and angry. I made it impossible to inviclucrarlo and only told me that we were there, that bis would go. In summary I ended up ashamed, crying, and with a lot of anger, and of course, the next day the gentlemen told me that if I was serious and that it felt uncomfortable. For things like these all the we go wrong. We have broken down the cars and tells us that the other day goes... A day in my despair and helplessness I told him I was leaving as well at night to look for who I will repair and let me go so ALONE!. My mother is a very hard worker and is very good at his job, all the daughters we work, and we have made of our cars and we have good partners and my father... spend all day watching television after work... Not pleased by none of our achievement, nothing will change and he has said it sees only spend the days. It fills us with rage and sadness that is not happy with us, treat us poorly and that for any thing to discuss. If our boyfriends take us on a tour was annoying but he never proposes to us to go to that ride! If you want to buy a new tv first makes us cry saying that not and not and not even going to buy. There is something that at this point we ask that we buy, does not support in house.. Only lives to watch tv and see the days pass. We asked that you expect, because you do not enjoy with us because it's discussed so much with mom! He just says that so it is, so you are already those things and makes a mockery of all. This brought me bad times, the anger, and quite badly I've desquito with my partner as they just give a foot outside of the house and exploded... rare I see one I just spoke about as the step wrong at home. What should I do!? Besides my mom also with me for being the biggest, confide everything and talks to me about his relationship with his partner as my friend and in addition I already I have seen thousands of times in the position of telling you that she is the culprit for having chosen and endure it... And then I cry, and I would like to enter in the head of my father and force him to we want to and be happy with us but I desgasté a long time :( only long for the day that I make my own life aside and be free and in an environment you happy and even with that until my head hurts of thinking that just because will be both the day to spend time alone...

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It is best to go to family therapy, to be systemic therapy, very effective in family problems.

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But what age are you?, remember that the improvement of a vehicle family is based only on the communication note in the action of love that can cause the other person sometimes we do not realize the errors because we are used to certain habits that society imposes, and it is there where is the fight, you can't deny you the chance to be with your dad if you want but you can't, expect things to change if there is a change on the part of the two-mainly from yourself to the. A positive change a change of image or habit nice a love, a action something that expresses that may be generated nice thing in the well between you

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