A girl 10 years older to me, says to be pregnant and that is mio, the problem is that she wants this with her as a couple, but I don't want to, it is not my desire. I have 19 years old and she 29, had little experience with girls, so it was with her that I had my first sexual experience without being boyfriends. There were several encounters, but without that I take protection, but that the pill of the next day for her; Until she came out pregnant. I think I can take care of the baby if it is mine. If it is mine, what I doubt because she is more to my, and my colleagues made comments not very flattering to her. I just have 19 years old, and that I still have a lot to explore, although I'm not mature enough to start a relationship, and much less if you don't want to, and it was clear from the beginning My personal relationships began to be affected, because every time you talked with alhguna girl, whether it be a friend or coworker to me, she started to zeal, beginning to despair. The family she began to speak, his desire is that I meet with her, her brothers began to intimidate me so that I would be in charge of her with the child, but not to do
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If you don't want it you don't have to be with her. And if you didn't want to be the father having placed condoms. If the baby is yours you'll have to take care of the. Because it is very easy to put it in hot and then make excuses. What are you going to doubt because it is older than you? Do you or your friends talk bad about her? Very nice, yes sir. Honestly I don't think that anyone would want to encasquetarle a baby to a child of 19 years, which does not have the maturity nor the resources to be a father. What you have to do is a dna test when the baby is born, and if it is yours take charge of it, and if not, you have not had sex without protection. Assume the consequences of your actions.
Friend before anything else a tip I recommend that you don't get to poke them with a person that your. Now if I tell you that if the baby is yours you have and you should take care of the bro if the baby is still not born I recommend that when the baby is born and you already have at least a year or almost a year to do a DNA test to find out if it matches your blood and if it comes out that is negative so do not have the same DNA you saved and if it is positive, that is worth to tell you that you will have to take care of the child Even you are very young you can enjoy your sexual life as you want but obviously has consequences, and serious that is why you have to be responsible in every sexual encounter Your social relations, you have to clarify it to them bro
It is evident that I take from you, never trust when you say "don't use protection, take the pill", is a story reviejo, that is what makes amount of boys, and not so young, but it seems to know more women, than men, that every so often, one falls down, now this, I met a guy who had a serious problem, family, a girlfriend told him that she was pregnant, did not know what to do, not I will tell you in detail because it is personal, but I told her to wait : a result, the boy was not of the, and almost home, "trouble", then what would you make? If you do not want, that is evident, do not marry her, about the threats, it is preferable that you can make a complaint preventive if you can, asesorate, if you give in to the threats, these worse, even if you have to spend a few moments of embarrassment, but you decide, respect to the guy, if it's yours, even though he was born without what you want, you can take over, without living with the woman, and continue your life, if you refuse, you can go to the justice, that asesorate well where you live, there are details of the Law, can force you to spend a pension, but never marry you against your will.
First, if the baby is yours, you have the obligation to take care of the baby, it is the obligation of the father, but in any case, nobody can force you to be with a girl if you don't want it to. Second – and more important – don't trust in the words of someone when it comes to such an important issue as the alleged paternity of yours and more if you what says a person who is not even your girlfriend. The test of paternity leave as the last resort to confirm or deny your paternity, when the baby. But maybe you don't need to suffer all these months without knowing the truth, and to do this, at least you know if you are pregnant and if the date of conception indicates that the pregnancy could be in the days when you had sex with her. Therefore, before anything else, you have to ask that you give the evidence of the outcome of the pregnancy (maybe you already went to have an ultrasound, and if she did not do it yet, because it will be done soon and I recommend that you go with it, and you make a copy of the report to be given), if it is the beginning of the pregnancy, maybe you'd have to ask you to do a urine test that you can check the result (that is, buy you, give it to her, you will wait outside the bathroom and then she'll teach you). Do not trust the photos and the evidence that she herself can teach you how – you don't know that intentions have that girl, it seems very desperate to find a partner if you insist to be with you, knowing that you don't want it to. If the tests indicate that the pregnancy could be given on the date of the intercourse with her, then you'd have to wait for the baby to do the paternity test. Remember, that she was pregnant, it is not only your fault – it is the responsibility of the two. Yes, you didn't use protection, but it seems that either so both are responsible. I'm glad to say that in case if the baby is yours, I would charge him, this says that you are a guy of values, but take care of the baby would be the only compromise that you would have in this situation. Yes, you are very young, and the girl being much older than you, you can take advantage of your lack of experience in these matters, of your innocence and expect that you will not get hit with the issue and that you're going to believe everything she says. I want to be clear: I do not say that she is lying, I'm not saying you can't be you father, but it is your right to know it, and you have to find that out before you start having any type of commitment with this potential baby. You have to be strong and be prepared to endure the pressure you feel as part of the family of that girl – you have done nothing wrong and do not you run away from the responsibility, but nobody can force you to be with her even if you were the parent.