I do not always see my father is always working when I am with him he isolates himself and we almost do not talk when we speak he tells me that he could not come for work, he does not have time, he was on a business trip, I do not live with him I do not know if it's true and I do not know what to do
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I hope you serve my opinion, I don't think that you're wrong, if your pope is isolated or not going on with you long enough, haselo know, tell him that you like to talk, to live, to spend time with the people we are very different, some are effusive, and others not so much and sometimes by the pressures of daily life, I advise that you speak to will external your feelings and desires as they say... that which does not speak, God does not hear... And if they after talked about their attitude is the same... Not get bogged down, I imagine that you live with your mom then give more love to her, talk with her some more etc etc, and I don't put out guesses or your put... You say that these thinking that alo better you're wrong, nothing that you're ok, the resins adult are so rare that we take more time to surface(work, money etc) and we believe that by giving the economy more than enough that is to demonstrate our commitment, and it is not so, so don't hesitate and tell your father your feelings and if you are of few words, writes him a letter explaining everything.
The truth you don't sound like a bad person, I'm not going to make excuses maybe he just feels overwhelmed by everything, but don't feel bad is that sometimes it is difficult to hablanr with our parents (especially if they are not very nearby) I understand you.. sometimes you feel alone.. or that you are a problem for others but not you e maldebes be a wonderful person my father also ignores me one day, I simply go quietly into the night and leave you to care for that sometimes, I felt bad for him and felt that it was toxic so I learned that they are just people who feel resentful.
To start you have to be positive, people are not as we want them to be, there are parents who do not work, yours works and may be tired, or is the way they are, if they treat you well, do not mess with you, gives you food and studies tries to respect it and this is it, life is not rosy, like the song you try to do things well to have a good future and do not forget to love yourself and respect others with that you can be happy
Do not be demanding of him. Do not judge. He does not see the need to apologize to you, giving the return to the normal relationship that should exist between a father and a son. When you're with him, respect it, award it, and think of your well; you're not thinking of your interests purely. And, in general, not did you live for yourself, but think of the good you can do, of course, being in the grace of God and keeping the Commandments of God and of the Church; also I recommend frequenting the Sacraments and prayer. Take advantage of any opportunity that you present to the well of truth.