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Can you give me tips for socializing?

Hello that such as I am a guy of 18 years I can work talking to people not is I am very closed to talk to ask them if they know of any book or something to appreciate them much

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The first step and crucial it is to think that gives you exactly the same as what others might think of you. We are not able to control the thoughts of the other, so why worry? If at any time you believe that you have goofed up with someone, it is best to think: "Me da igual" And the main tricks to a conversation are: \- Ask a lot of the other paying close attention to the answers : your work, your life, if you like something, if you have seen something, what is your opinion on... \- You smile a lot (when appropriate, whenever possible)

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I would say that you try to do it by yourself, what I have read, and it makes a lot, although it may serve for something, all this material seems to me empty, artificial, and not say, hypocrite, that is not what has to be appearance only. Is used enough in public relations, to sales, etc, Is to speak slowly, to not go with more of a friend or acquaintance, this makes the thing easier, if there are two or three, and talk, and you are looking at and you can get nervous. That would be a "hand to hand" and you could be in better conditions, you don't have to invent anything, just talk about what you like. You will see little, if there are matches or not. With some people, there will be enough, with other, somewhat less but equally if you are open-minded, you can have a dialogue. You will see that with some people, dialogue is impossible unless you want the person to put in a victim, they always want to be the reason, although the cause is psychological is different in those cases. Little by little, try. If you want to, there are books, e.g. how to start a conversation, with strangers, with girls, etc, does not seem to me of great "inventive" so don't recommend none, but you can do what you want, I hope it's been sorted out. Ste.

2voto

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There is a very useful and practical booklet, called something like "Improve self-esteem" and the author is Nathaniel Bränden. If you can not locate it, it could provide it.

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When you're with someone interested in him or her, really thats what we like the most, because if someone shows real interest in what they say makes us feel good and automatically such person will be valuable and important to us, hence this key in social relations.

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I went out to do some sports club, that help especially if it is group as soccer, handball, volleyball. Do work community or solidarity in a social assistance centre also serves.

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