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Is an error moving me to the grandmother of my partner's house or another place to feel that my mother doesn't value me?

I tell you, I am 24 years old, I am a professional graduate in early childhood education, I am exercising the ministry of national education, only that I have not even cashed my first paycheck as I have to wait for the new school year then enter half of the year here is how things work, from the 13 years I have worked with my mother who was single and raised their 3 children alone, never enjoy a vacation like a normal teenager and q for being a tourist this area in the holiday season I worked with her selling food, t-shirt, when I was 16 she end of to make their house and I went to study in the Univ home of an aunt for 5 years, so even on vacation I had to be here to help her, my older sister already worked and my brother medium got money x your account or she helped, to the study it paid for my studies but I went hungry to not have for food I never opened anything unless q came December, and never will exijia anything even if I do not pay never of my work, at 18 years old I got my first job as a recreating of holiday plans and camps, to the 20 labor as executive callcenter until the child is 21, at 22 I moved to the house of my breast as I finish my career and is a good area to get charge of teaching quickly because it is rural, my mother does not live here, living with a selfish, which is his partner who treats them poorly and makes trabajarle in your business without giving you any benefit, it will help with your sales, all the life has treated you wonderfully and waited for q to come before the house to cook without caring if I was hungry because I had to cook because I according to her was very loose, he was just 11 years old when he began to live with and was the one who told him things of my to she I regañara for everything, I was never a girl going out to parties or sneak out or have boyfriends, the first was to 19, and up to 16 I lived that ordeal with the two of them, now as I said before I live in their house, as I am 24 years old I have a plot of land to build and my partner and I are looking for the money, before I had said to my mother that I wanted to build a room for me since my older sister and I share a room and when she comes almost every weekend, should I switch to my mother q nobody uses it and I don't have where to put my clothes and books and issues of work, my mom gave me as a response q after what we spoke about and it is always the same answer so I deduced q doesn't want to q the build, now my mother tells me q does not want q bring, visits, my brother brings when he gives the win to the same q my sister and are always well received, and as I said q had always had a preference for them q by my and then I said q what to because it was their house and not mine and for that reason she decided to q up and q does not. I clean and mantego ordered no one else does because I'm the one to here, not even her q is the owner, since q I breach wounded with their response to the hecharme in the face that this is not my house, she being my mother, I Am thinking to go with my partner as he lives two houses, but it is not of the but of his grandmother and has his own room. But it will be a great change because it here would have the house to my own when there is nobody and appliances and all that, but not a room, there if the would have but would share the rest of the house, that midanza serious while we build our house, then I need to move and show it to my mother q must be best with me as well as with my siblings or should I stay and follow me swallowing q all makes me feel your preference to my brothers, and it won't let me have a room of one's own? On the other hand my paternal grandmother q lives alone and could move with it in the meantime, but it is very traditional and would not have to stay with my partner, then what I advise?

1voto

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Have it is yours a living hell if you work and have money to keep you I salldria of your home let your mother shitting milks.. as you say you can go to grandma's house while you build yours, my advice is to test whether your with your grandmother I carry it well, no fights or anything is an option valid, but how to anything that you feel badly treated me while I do the house would look for something to rent and you would be the two together and there you would have to depend on anyone only you but with your age and the way that these in your house I largaba sooner rather than sings a rooster... live your life and the others who kill one of them if that is a mother and a few siblings, but living like that is not worth to live two days, and that you amargen as well? And so many years removed removed.. I think so...

1voto

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Usually it happens that in some families, pass that. A proverb says "if you become a rug, the others will clean the shoes in her" Your family is abusing you, and you have two possibilities, your paternal grandmother, and the go of your boyfriend. Your grandmother maybe not such a good idea, it would be more secure, for that is grandmother directly, but could, by reason of the parentesto, get your family, you could not avoid it. In contrast, in the house of the boy, they would be apart, just that it would be the grandmother, but it is not the same to deal with all your family, comes before you go, if you decide to, have some conversations with her, to see that such is and as you proceed so that you have a good relationship, but note, that all the world thinks differently, and sometimes, you'll have to be prudent, it is worth, you might only need to share something, the kitchen, etc, but it would be more quiet. And the main thing of this whole matter, is to have the affection of your boyfriend. Luck.

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